“ For most people, love means, 'You must do what I want.' No, love means, they can do what they want, and we still love them ”
When you stop expecting people to be perfect, you can like them for who they are.
Most people are competent of using love to fulfill the domestic needs but to go beyond that they are not ready. When one is ready and another is not ready or one is making an effort and another doesn't have the effort, then it feels like somebody is becoming a doormat
If you love somebody, let them go, for if they return, they were always yours. If they don't, they never were.
If you love someone, you should do what they like for them. Not what you like.
If you have only one smile in you, give it to the people you love. Don't be surly at home, then go out in the street and start grinning 'Good morning' at total strangers.