“ Whenever things don't happen the way you want them to happen, there is a temptation to think and name it as destiny, because this is a way of dealing with failure, this is not destiny, just cheap psychiatry ”
Source: "Midnights with the Mystic" Conversations 2008. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jYMt6ySMOeY
In marriages, there are divergent expectations. The woman expects the man to change. The man expects the woman to never change
There is everything you know and there is everything that happens. When the two do not line up, you make a choice.
I'm not in this world to live up to your expectations and you're not in this world to live up to mine.
If something bad happens you drink in an attempt to forget; if something good happens you drink in order to celebrate; and if nothing happens you drink to make something happen.
People who want to marry should first have to learn to control their emotions. Two people placed together in the arena of marriage without this training battle worse than opponents in a World War! Wars, at least, come to an end after a time