“ Seeking means admitting that you do not know. Once you have cleared your slate, truth can imprint itself upon it. ”
If you want to approach the truth, the first thing is you don't assume anything. If you have already made an assumption, you are just trying to find the confirmation for your assumption, that is not seeking truth
Letting go doesn't mean that you don't care about someone anymore. It's just realizing that the only person you really have control over is yourself.