“ You can't live your life for other people. You've got to do what's right for you, even if it hurts some people you love. ”
Source: The Notebook
There's no such thing as ruining your life. Life's a pretty resilient thing, it turns out.
Don't think about making life better for other people who don't even deserve you, rather, focus on making your life the best, for yourself and those who love you.
Somewhere along the way in your life, the world and its people will have a problem with you. That's their problem. Not yours.
So many people enter and leave your life! Hundreds of thousands of people! You have to keep the door open so they can come in! But it also means you have to let them go!