“ When you've suffered a great deal in life, each additional pain is both unbearable and trifling. ”
Source: Life of Pi
When you compare the sorrows of real life to the pleasures of the imaginary one, you will never want to live again, only to dream forever.
Sometimes you weren't supposed to share pain. Sometimes it was best just to deal with it alone.
You shouldn't go through life with a catcher's mitt on both hands; you need to be able to throw some things back.