“ Never explain- your friends do not need it and your enemies will not believe you anyway. ”
Be like family to your friends, a friend to strangers, and a stranger to your enemies.
For those who have conquered the mind, the mind is their friend. For those who have failed to do so, the mind acts like an enemy.
if you are going to make people around you joyful and relieved only when you die, that's not a good way to live.