“ Forgiveness must be immediate, whether or not a person asks for it. Trust must be rebuilt over time. Trust requires a track record. ”
Source: The Purpose Driven Life: What on Earth Am I Here for?
Forgiving isn't something you do for someone else. It's something you do for yourself.
It is looking at things for a long time that ripens you and gives you a deeper meaning.
Our presence here is just for a short period of time. We do not have to shorten it by fighting each other
Life appears to me too short to be spent in nursing animosity or registering wrongs.
The past is a place of reference, not a place of residence; the past is a place of learning, not a place of living.