“ Truth is not something outside to be discovered, it is something inside to be realized. ”
Source: The Buddha Said...: Meeting the Challenge of Life's Difficulties
Comfort is not what you're seeking. What you're seeking is a deeper experience of life.
You don't believe things because they make your life better, you believe them because they're true.
Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live.