“ You cannot help people permanently by doing for them, what they could and should do for themselves. ”
You can never get everyone's approval for what you want to do. So, don't worry about it.
Don't waste your time with explanations: people only hear what they want to hear.
I have never met a man so ignorant that I couldn't learn something from him.
If you knew how quickly people forget the dead... you would stop living to impress people.