“ I always hated when my scars started to fade, because as long as I could still see them, I knew why I was hurting. ”
Source: Handle with Care
I've lived too long with pain. I won't know who I am without it.
We can never judge the lives of others, because each person knows only their own pain and renunciation.
If you are distressed by anything external, the pain is not due to the thing itself, but to your estimate of it; and this you have the power to revoke at any moment.