“ Do not wait for problems to overwhelm you. Take action before problems come. Preemption is the Path to Safety and Success ”
The game of life is a lot like football. You have to tackle your problems, block your fears, and score your points when you get the opportunity.
Don't confuse poor decision-making with destiny. Own your mistakes. It's ok; we all make them. Learn from them so they can empower you!
Perform all actions forsaking attachment to the fruits of actions, being indifferent to success and failure. Such mental equanimity is called Yoga