“ Forgive but do not forget, or you will be hurt again. Forgiving changes the perspectives. Forgetting loses the lesson. ”
I don't think anyone ever gets over anything in life; they merely get used to it.
If you're in trouble, or hurt or need - go to the poor people. They're the only ones that'll help - the only ones.
Life doesn't get easier or more forgiving, we get stronger and more resilient.