“ Sometimes it's not enough to know what things mean, sometimes you have to know what things don't mean. ”
Mama used to say, you have to know someone a thousand days before you can glimpse her soul.
If you love someone, you should do what they like for them. Not what you like.
If you are distressed by anything external, the pain is not due to the thing itself, but to your estimate of it; and this you have the power to revoke at any moment.