“ We are trying to cloud our vision of reality with lots of decorations, we always add emotion to sex because without emotion it would be ugly ”
To make a simple physical act beautiful, we have invented all kinds of decorations around it. Without those decorations most people would be unwilling to get into the physical act. Lot of people cannot simply face the basic physical act as it is, unless it is decorated they will feel it is obscene, they'll feel it is basic - which is a fact
Love is not a relationship. Love is a certain sweetness of your emotion. Whether you look at a tree or a dog or a man or a woman or a child or just at the sky, why can't you look at it lovingly? Because it's not about loving the sky, it's about the sweetness of your emotion. If your emotions are sweet, whatever you look at, you will look at it lovingly
Sexual gratification alone does not satisfy the heart; without real love, the heart will remain hollow.
If you are trying to extract joy, love & pleasantness out of somebody, this is going to be disastrous for both people