“ Unless there is involvement in what you do, and it means a lot to you, your work is just a waste of time and life for yourself and everybody else ”
Source: Pebbles of Wisdom- Sadhguru
If it is impairing you rather than empowering you, then it is not Love, it is some convoluted idea
if you want flowers to grow in your garden, you don't have to think flowers, you don't have to chant flowers. You just have to think of soil, manure, water, sunlight - nothing to do with flowers; if you handle filth well, flowers will happen
Take it moment by moment, and you will find that we are all, as I've said before, bugs in amber.
Most people think, “this is work”, “that is life”. That means a large part of your life is not life
Whether I keep you half alive or you keep yourself half alive, whichever way- it's torture