“ One who is in constant journey learns to love and enjoy everything, but not pick up anything on the way. ”
You cannot rise in love, you cannot stand in love, you cannot fly in love, you have to fall. Something of you should fall, otherwise it will not work. You will not know it.
One who is longing to use love as a way of ultimate union should not be bothered about being a doormat, this and that.
Love is not a joy; it is a deep, wonderful pain. Everything within you should tear. Only then will you know what love is.
Forget about others. You learn to be loving by your own nature, not because of somebody else or something else.