“ One who is longing to use love as a way of ultimate union should not be bothered about being a doormat, this and that. ”
One who is in constant journey learns to love and enjoy everything, but not pick up anything on the way.
Forget about others. You learn to be loving by your own nature, not because of somebody else or something else.
There is nothing greater than love- God's quality of attraction and unity that is manifested in the soul of every being.
Accept the things to which fate binds you, and love the people with whom fate brings you together, but do so with all your heart.